Is there any news?

Is there any news?

- No... there will be plenty...

We are a very young nation. Child education is at the level of value. We rejoice when a child is born in a family. We are thankful that one person has increased. This blessing of God increases family strength and responsibility.

It was the time when we got a bride. It's been a couple of months and the neighbors asked if there was any news about your daughter-in-law. I said I don't know. I was a little disappointed. I wanted to say that they know someone's news at birth. Why are there so many grudges against new brides changing?

My recently transferred relative complained that not everyone would open their eyes to ask about the news. I feel how difficult it is for women who have not had children for many years. He said, "I've been so stressed in five months." Another bride is in the process of treatment because her child was stillborn a year ago. He was also asking about it. Poor...

There are various situations in marriage and life. One of us had not had a child for many years. People ask what they are asking. One day, she cried to my father, "Marry your son to someone else, just have a child." My father was a grateful man. "If Allah has written a child on my son's forehead, he will give it to me one day, be patient," he said. I gave birth to sons one after another, and I grew up. We forgot those words.

One day, my sister, who works as a nurse in a large company, called. One colleague, an older girl, gained a little weight during treatment due to medication. One day, a woman said to that girl, "You must be having a boy, your face is getting fat." My sister called this woman and said that you hurt that girl's heart, she is not married, ask for forgiveness. Unfortunately, the excitement continued. Are people so observant? Let's talk about someone's weight gain and weight loss, and the length of his shirt. Everyone measures the world by their own yardstick, I told my sister.

A very sincere and charming student girl came to practice in our office. She is a new bride. He tried to leave earlier than other students, to rush home. One day he came in a bad mood. When I asked the reason, she said that it's been three months since you got married, and she said, "Is there any news? The elders of the family asked. If the elders of the family have a child, it is necessary, and they are in a hurry to caress and raise our child." But something rebelled inside me. How many have waited three months, three years, ten years? If Allah does not give, He cannot take away.

One day, a woman who had been married for a year was angry with her sister. He said, "Sister, there is a good clinic, and foreign doctors are conducting ECU practice there." The sister's intention was not bad. She wanted to see a baby at her sister's house. But the young bride and groom adapt to the family in one or two years. What is the point of encouraging them to have artificial children at this time? "I wouldn't be so upset if a fertility clinic or a medical clinic recommended it," says the sister.

My mother, Rahmali, always prayed to give children to those who wanted children. Perhaps because she was a single girl after her siblings passed away early, she wished that there would be more of us. She gave birth to eleven and had nine of us. He studied with my father and added it to his hand. As an adult, I understood the meaning of his prayers. Every day is painful for those who are expecting a child.

Many years ago, when I was treated in the hospital for a cold, my roommate cried for a long time at night, and if I asked, he would say that it was me. I sat down one day and explained that if a person is depressed and cries, the illness will worsen and the recovery will be delayed. He is a smart young man despite his poor speech. She is being treated for infertility. All tests came out fine. But the mother-in-law only blames the bride. Tests submitted together with the groom and medications taken together are not allowed. That day, we consulted with the doctor and advised the son-in-law who came to visit his wife. A man who doesn't do anything after his mother loves his woman, knowing that he is flawed. I don't know what the doctor said. The couple went together. I have always concluded that women are to blame.

If there are ten, take a seat, says the Uzbek. The child likes that there are no strangers. He exclaims that the child is the light of the house, the light of the eyes. That's why he wants others to multiply in his family. Sometimes he blurts out, "Is there any news?" says. There is no malice in this. But the answerer has heart. If there is no news, the heart hurts. It's okay if you ask a couple of questions. Too much will scar the heart.

Let's leave someone's inner affairs to God. Let's pray if we can. If there is news, we will hear more.

Manzura ShaMS