If there are ten, take a seat, says the Uzbek. The child likes that there are no strangers. He exclaims that the child is the light of the house, the light of the eyes. That's why he wants others to multiply in his family. Sometimes he blurts out, "Is there any news?" says. There is no malice in this. But the answerer has heart. If there is no news, the heart hurts. It's okay if you ask a couple of questions. Too much will scar the heart.